oy vey.

man, it has been a minute, am i right? no one reads this, which is reassuring. so i can say whatever the fudge i want.

so, um, what has happened since i last graced this silly self important blog...well, james had a terrible motorcycle wreck followed by a nervous breakdown, which led to us returning to kc. that is nice. i was reminded that, unfortunately, even 'family' is easy come, easy go. which i am no longer upset about, because i have my own damn family. um...we bought a house. it is not even close to what i had always dreamed of, but it has a roof and plumbing, so, you know, it works. it has all of the things on our 'list' minus the fireplace, and big grand sippin' iced tea porch. but i can do that from the stoop and call myself urban. and the ventless fireplaces aren't that bad.

i have this amazing job where i make a meager wage for doing NOTHING, so i can't really complain about the paychecks.

now, it is time to begin the home decorating process...so, that will be *fun*. i will upload some pics soon. i have tons of ideas but no pocketbook for any of them.

i have to keep repeating the one thing at a time mantra. rome wasn't built in a day and all that. sheesh. i should pretend to do some actual work now.

boss man approaches...